
(This conversation will contain spoilers for the current chapters and possibly for future chapters.)
S: Oh, Mr. Crawford! I suppose if Fanny was actually interested in Mr. Crawford’s advances his unannounced visit might have endeared her more fully to him, but instead it’s a source of agitation for her, mainly because of her family. It’s rather unfortunate, and yet completely understandable, how she feels toward them. Mr. Crawford’s visit does make me wonder: Is he improved, or is he acting? If he is acting, how long will it last?
R: Henry. Stinkin’. Crawford. But he puts his best foot forward and seems to endear himself to Fanny’s family. Even Fanny herself softens ever so slightly toward him, though his visit causes her real distress. I have no idea about his motivations and it’s driving me crazy.
S: Chapter 42 confuses me even further – is Mr. Crawford truly as caring in his feelings toward Fanny as he professes, or is he just a flatterer? I, like Fanny, can’t figure him out, but I do like that he implores her to tell him if she needs to go home sooner than her allotted two months. Although, thinking on it more, it was rather bullying, with no regard for honouring Sir Thomas’s wishes. I feel for Fanny just as, it appears, Mr. Crawford does, for he sees her tiredness and her strength failing at her parent’s home, but she is also trying to do the right thing and honour her uncle and her parents.
R: I agree completely. Mr. Crawford’s motivations are still unclear, though he certainly shows a great deal of care and concern for Fanny. I believe that if Fanny asked to return to Mansfield early, Sir Thomas wouldn’t hesitate to bring her right back. He probably had no idea how difficult it would be for Fanny to visit home, much as she didn’t know herself. I’m glad that Mr. Crawford appears to have truly become a man worthy of Fanny’s respect, but I don’t trust it.
S: We already, I think, have a pretty good idea of Miss Crawford’s character, but in Chapter 43 we see even better the kind of person she is. We also learn from Fanny about how attached she has become to her younger sister, Susan, and it makes me so happy that she has found an ally, someone whom she can mentor. I really hope that Susan can live with Fanny at some point! I don’t want it to happen, because I still don’t like him all that much, but I wonder if Fanny is beginning to soften toward Mr. Crawford?
R: It certainly seems like Fanny might be changing her mind about Mr. Crawford. I was thinking the same thing.
S: Then Fanny receives the long-awaited letter from Edmund and I love her reaction! It is so real, and I found myself laughing at how often I react like she does when my emotions are everywhere all at once. Obviously, she has yet to work through her feelings for Edmund and she’s trying to reign in her thoughts and subdue them when everyone seems to be either confusing her or disappointing her. I’m sure I’ve said it before, but she is so real!
R: Fanny’s reaction to Edmund’s letter is both funny and sad. I’m glad for her that she is asserting herself, even if it’s only to herself. This whole thing with Edmund and Mary Crawford is frustrating, though. Austen keeps giving us ‘will they or won’t they?’
S: I am surprised at the family not sending for her, though, since Tom is so ill – it seems very out of character for Sir Thomas or for Lady Bertram, but perhaps, as you mentioned, Sir Thomas is unaware of what Fanny is going through and doesn’t want to take her away from her family too early. I know that he is also hoping that she will see what a great match Mr. Crawford would make. As we have seen from earlier in the story, Sir Thomas really does love her despite some of the mistakes he has made.
R: It really is surprising that no one thinks to bring Fanny back to Mansfield Park, except for the Crawfords. And we know that she doesn’t want to accept their assistance for fear of giving Mr. Crawford further hope that she’ll accept his suit.
S: It makes me so very happy that Fanny is no longer the quiet, shy woman we have become so accustomed to seeing. She has changed and become strong and I really like it. Hers is a quiet strength that is not often regarded and is seen, for example, in the fact that she vehemently disagrees with the Crawford’s way of life and with her parent’s, but she is also very gracious and honouring of all around her.